The journey to true love, is the journey to the love which lies within your heart.
You are the one that you have been seeking. 
A connection with your own inner true self, which is love.

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"Tamara has a phrase in the book. You are hit by a feather, then a stick and lastly a sledgehammer before you learn your lesson in life. That was spot on the case with my relationships. This book taught me how to spot a toxic relationship and how to break free. Instead of chasing after the person who caused the car crash, this book taught me how to stay behind the with the injured child and care for it. I've learned why I fell for men that was bad for me and how to love myself instead. I can highly recommend this book to anyone stuck in the same old bad relationship loops." E.S.
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"This book is everything and then some.  Tamara empowers others to live in their highest state with love, light, grace and joy. 
Even though this book mainly discusses romantic relationships, it can be applied to every aspect of our lives. 
She has such a positive way of showing others their negative thought patterns and actions, which can hold us back from living our best life.  
Highly recommend this engaging book to everyone I know, especially those that want to grow into their best self and spread love and light throughout this dark world."   Jen C.
Breaking the Habit of Dating Your Past

The five signs and nine filtering patterns are your tools to assist you in breaking the habit of dating your past. Your old patterns no longer need to attract in your romantic partners.

We are all on a journey where teaching is constant and learning is optional.  But for the seeker of truth, learning is imperative.  The aim of this book is to help you evolve beyond your old patterns and attract in the romantic life partner you have been yearning for.

Discover the five easy signs to help you to know whether you are repeating the past.  Eliminate the nine filtering patterns that you use to ignore the signs.   These simple tools  are yours to assist you to live your authentic life and propel you on your journey to soul love.

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Chapter 3: Dating the narcissist  (preview)
You may find that things move fast when you date a narcissist.  One minute you are single, the next you are entwined in his web of mental games. 

Some favorites are: “I want you, but I don’t want you”, “Let me tell you your faults”, or he can ignore you for days because you have “hurt him”.

He has a huge list of offenses, and at any random point in time, he can accuse you of one of them.

I have found a narcissist is insecure and afraid on the inside and has a deep need to make you feel as bad as he does.

On the outside, he can be confident and highly intelligent. He can be charming and win your friends over with his charisma and outgoing personality.  Shy versions exist also, sitting alone at your family functions, separating you from family and friends.

He loves listing your faults, but then will refer to you as his princess, or that you should be treated like one.

You will wonder why he wants to date you, when all he can see are faults within you. He needs to put you down. He cannot have you receiving greater applause than him or outshining him.

He needs you dependent on him, mentally and emotionally, otherwise he cannot play with you, knocking you off your happy perch when he wants to.

You can be happy, when it suits him. A common attack of his will be to tear you (or your future children) down, out of nowhere.

A sudden attack over nothing is his weapon of choice. He may then follow this up with the silent treatment, which can last for days. He loves having you wonder what you have done wrong.

Mental and emotional torture is his delight, and depending on the degree of narcissism, he will intersperse this with periods of physical or sexual abuse.

I've found In its worst embodiment, this personality type can bring you to the brink of destruction and despair. This personality type can undermine your self-esteem and cause you to question your relevance in this world.

The narcissistic personality details presented in this book are based on my life experience and observations, they are not presented as a medical diagnosis nor to diagnose or treat anyone.
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